Book Review ­ 1000 Questions For Couples – Relationship Compatibility Tests

Book Review ­ 1000 Questions For Couples

One of the biggest reason marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to ask the big questions before they walk down the aisle.

If couples simply spent some time asking each other the questions that really matter, they’d greatly increase their chances of staying together.

The great thing about a “question book” is that it makes it easier to ask those difficult questions and encourages an environment to address them.

But is Michael Webb’s “1000 Questions For Couples” the right book for this?

In short, yes. Most question books ‘beat around the bush,’ never really providing the important questions, and others simply don’t have enough questions.

On the other hand, Webb has put together the most comprehensive collection of questions, covering every single topic you’d ever want to know about before tying the knot.

It includes tough subjects like money, children & child rearing, career, past and present relationships, religion, morals, convictions & beliefs, personality, and even sex.

But don’t get me wrong ­ while there are many serious and tough topics to discuss, there are also many “lighter” yet just as important topics, including the car and driving, vacations, food and well being, pets, and your favorite things.

That’s one thing I really loved about this book. It covered every conceivable topic from the super serious to the light-hearted and fun, making it easy for couples to start with easy questions and build their way up to important ones.

Also, a great bonus is having the ability to deliver 3 – 5 of the questions to my email each day, making everything automatic. I just go about my day and get new questions to ask my loved one, without having to really think about it.

In all, there’s nothing really negative I can say about this book. It delivers exactly what it says and covers every question you would ever want to ask your loved one.

I highly recommend this book for everyone. NOT just couples who are thinking of getting married but also couples who just want to feel closer together, or people dating, who just want more things to talk about.

Read another post on my blog 1000 Questions To Ask For Couples – 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together

Book Review ­ 1000 Questions For Couples – Relationship Compatibility Tests

Book Review ­ 1000 Questions For Couples

One of the biggest reason marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to ask the big questions before they walk down the aisle.

If couples simply spent some time asking each other the questions that really matter, they’d greatly increase their chances of staying together.

The great thing about a “question book” is that it makes it easier to ask those difficult questions and encourages an environment to address them.

But is Michael Webb’s “1000 Questions For Couples” the right book for this?

In short, yes. Most question books ‘beat around the bush,’ never really providing the important questions, and others simply don’t have enough questions.

On the other hand, Webb has put together the most comprehensive collection of questions, covering every single topic you’d ever want to know about before tying the knot.

It includes tough subjects like money, children & child rearing, career, past and present relationships, religion, morals, convictions & beliefs, personality, and even sex.

But don’t get me wrong ­ while there are many serious and tough topics to discuss, there are also many “lighter” yet just as important topics, including the car and driving, vacations, food and well being, pets, and your favorite things.

That’s one thing I really loved about this book. It covered every conceivable topic from the super serious to the light-hearted and fun, making it easy for couples to start with easy questions and build their way up to important ones.

Also, a great bonus is having the ability to deliver 3 – 5 of the questions to my email each day, making everything automatic. I just go about my day and get new questions to ask my loved one, without having to really think about it.

In all, there’s nothing really negative I can say about this book. It delivers exactly what it says and covers every question you would ever want to ask your loved one.

I highly recommend this book for everyone. NOT just couples who are thinking of getting married but also couples who just want to feel closer together, or people dating, who just want more things to talk about.

Read another post on my blog 1000 Questions To Ask For Couples – 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together

Free Emotional Compatibility Questionaire – How to Know If You Are Compatible?

Couple compatibility testEveryone wants to be happy, but what does that mean? Well, a person needs to eat enough of tasty and healthy food, be in good physical and emotional shape and enjoy himself. But what about a happy relationship? How one find the perfect partner for more than one night in the same bed?

Think for a second about your best friend – why are you best friends? Because he or she looks good or is the same as you? Or maybe because he or she is so different that it fascinates you and so you can argue a lot? Or probably because you feel differently about things?

Well, I know that my best friends I choose because we think the same about many things – we agree on more things in life than we disagree. We have very close emotions about life – enthusiasm or conservatism, slight interest or boredom, fear or worry or even grief. That mean we are emotionally close. And finally – I enjoy talking and listening to my friends – because they are neither too slow or too fast for me to follow the conversation.

So we have here 3 main close friendship compatibility categories: Read the rest of this entry »

Free Emotional Compatibility Questionaire – How to Find Out If You Are a Compatible Couple?

People are surely not machines, they have emotions! If you know the list of human emotions and can identify them by just looking at another person, than you can suddenly discover that most people just time after time show the same emotion all over again.

Do you have a father who all the time finds something bad about things? Like he is being antagonistic in life? Or maybe your mother worries all the time – everything makes her nervous. Or your friend who all the time finds something new and interesting and gets pretty enthusiastic.

Well, you may say that such a regular, time after time emotional tone can identify a person. In his book, “Science of Survival” L. Ron Hubbard, the founder of Scientology religion, shows a fascinating chart of human emotions and behavior, by which you can predict how a particular person would behave in different situations.

How well will he be able to communicate? Will he be able to agree with you or will always find something wrong to tell you. Will you be able to trust him or not. And many many more interesting personal traits. It is a very powerful knowledge to have, I’d tell you.

Anyway, after you identify the regular or chronic – that which shows itself all the time, emotional tone of a person – you can do the same about yourself. Please, do not ask anyone to do that for you, use your own judgement – it’s safer that way.

And finally compare between your emotional tones. If they seem to be the same – wonderful! You are emotionally compatible. If not, meaning you feel differently from your partner more times than feeling the same, oh-oh! Watch out! It seems you are not that compatible – your emotional compatibility is not at its best.

You are welcome to try this out for any relationship you have – friends, loved one, co-workers, even parents – this can explain quite a lot about trouble you might have with some people.

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Take ACE – Free Online Couple Compatibility Test to discover by using a carefully preselected list of questions if you are intellectually, emotionally and mentally compatible with your partner.

Marriage and Dating Compatibility Tests Categories

People are the most complicated beings on Earth and no scientist has yet invented a robot, which even remotely resembles the complex behavior of a person. People talk, they think, they feel emotions, they imagine, they fall in love, they create illusions and make them a reality and much much more.

So in order to fully test for relationship compatibility a couple has to test the following sides of a human being:

  • Rational compatibility
  • Emotional compatibility
  • Communication compatibility
  • Spiritual compatibility
  • Sexual compatibility

In this order of importance. Let’s take a look at each one…

Rational compatibility

People apart from animals think! Yes and when they do so they use information from school, friends and parents opinions. And with this data they arrive at conclusions, decide decisions and make up their mind. So, two people are rationally compatible if they have relatively close data, like if they finished the same school or university, came from the same social sphere and generally have very close opinions on many things in life.

Emotional compatibility

Besides thinking people feel. They like some things while despising or even hating others. And this emotional attitude towards things in life people can share or not. So two people are emotionally compatible if they most of the time feel the same about different areas of life.

Communication compatibility

Oh, this is interesting! To understand communication compatibility, one has to understand communication in general. To put it shortly, two people have close communication compatibility if it takes them quite the same amount of time to answer similar questions. Like, simply asking what’s your name and measuring the time it takes for each one to answer might reveal their relative communication speed.

Spiritual compatibility

It’s amazing but for the first time in human history there is an exact definition for spirit … it is you! So, actually any kind of compatibility test which tests you as a human being and not an animal IS a spiritual compatibility test. Which leaves us with…

Sexual compatibility

Sexual compatibility is the most confusing aspect of compatibility and this is actually because sexual attraction can be divided into two parts – physical attraction and aesthetic admiration.

When someone is pretty – you want to be close to that person and if he or she has something that tells you they like the physical contact or promise physical pleasure, this would create physical attraction also. Quite a complex feeling especially since we all want pleasures and delight of life.

The simplest sexual compatibility test is – do you want at the same time to make love and do you enjoy physical contact with each other. If you do both – you are quite compatible sexually, I’d say.

In summary

People are complex and people are simple. I only want to recommend taking ACE – Online Couple Compatibility Test to test at least the first 3 compatibility categories – Rational, Emotional and Communication. Sexual compatibility I leave to you…

Take ACE -Free Online Compatibility Test for Couples today!

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